In a bold and unfiltered interview hosted by Cruise on YouTube, ten women share the kind of sex advice every man needs to hear. These women speak openly about what they truly want when it comes to intimacy, connection, and pleasure. Their advice is raw, direct and deeply insightful cutting through assumptions and ego to highlight what really matters in the bedroom.
From communication and consent to emotional connection and hygiene, here are ten sex tips every man should know straight from the voices of real women.
1. Always ask for consent, It is sexy and respectful
One of the first things several women stressed was the need for clear and respectful communication before any intimacy. One woman boldly said,
“Ask! Just ask. It’s not hard.”
Consent is not just about legality, it shows respect, care, and emotional maturity.
2. Foreplay is not optional, It is essential
Most of the women mentioned that foreplay matters a lot.
“Don’t just go straight to the main thing,” one lady warned.
“Spend time, touch, tease, connect, let it build up.”
It is not about rushing to the goal but making the entire experience pleasurable.
3. Focus on her pleasure, not just yours
A major theme was mutual satisfaction.“It’s not about you finishing and then rolling over. What about me?” one woman asked.
Men are encouraged to pay attention to their partner’s responses and pleasure, not just performance.
4. Every woman is different, ask what works
There is no one-size-fits-all. “Don’t assume every woman likes the same thing. We’re all different.”
What worked for someone else may not work now. Listen, observe and ask your partner what feels good.
5. Build emotional intimacy
Sex is not just physical, one of the women noted,
“The connection starts outside the bedroom.”
Caring about her day, checking on her mentally and being emotionally present makes intimacy feel more genuine.
6. Stop worrying about lasting ‘forever’ be present
Many men feel pressured to last a long time but the women interviewed said quality beats quantity.
“It’s not about 45 minutes of pounding,” one said laughing.
“It’s about being in sync with me, not trying to perform.”
7. Cleanliness is foreplay too
Hygiene came up a few times as a simple but powerful turn-on.
“Clean your body, clean your mouth. I beg.” Smelling fresh and being tidy shows effort and effort is sexy.
8. Confidence, not arrogance
Women like confidence but not cockiness.“Be confident but don’t act like you’re God’s gift,” someone pointed out.
Confidence comes from paying attention, being respectful and knowing how to carry yourself not bragging about your skills.
9. Aftercare matters
Sex does not end at climax, cuddling, checking in or simply holding space matters.
“Don’t just zip up and go, say something, hold me.”
Aftercare builds trust and closeness, especially in long-term connections.
10. Silence does not mean satisfaction, communicate
Women admitted they sometimes pretend to be okay just to avoid awkwardness. One said,
“We lie and say it’s fine, but deep down we wish you’d ask more.”
Ask your partner what she likes. How it felt, if something can improve and be open to hearing the truth without ego.
These ten tips are not about performance, they are about presence, respect and connection. Listening to women, honoring their comfort and prioritising mutual satisfaction changes everything.
If you are willing to learn, ask and grow, your sex life and your relationship will thank you.